What are you doing here?

I freelanced with the American Association of Orthodontics last week. I sometimes freelance in AV work for clients in the Boston area. While working with their AV team I was asked by Calvin the question “with all you got going on, why are you here?”.

He assumed that because I have my own company, and a few projects in progress I should perhaps have more leisure time. I assured him that I did not. I also said if I could work 12 hour days every day I would .

I have a 6 year old daughter and 12 year old son that I need to squirrel away money for college for and I have over head in my apartment / home office. Getting complacent is not part of my business model.

I read a book several years ago called “who moved my cheese by Spencer Johnson”. It tells in parable the story of change and how to deal with it. Lots of people are dealing with change these days so perhaps this book will become well read again.

It taught me that if you rely on one pile of cheese that pile will get depleted. If you don’t continue to find new ways to find cheese you may starve. My freelancing in AV is one more part of my search for cheese. I never stop looking for cheese now.

I hope this better explains what I was doing there.

Filtering social spam away from you.

If you are like me and I hope your are, I think we can both agree that spam is time consuming and regardless of how many times we delete it or label it spam it can still show up in our inbox. I have a spam blocker on my corporate email which requires verification which works very well.

For all social media sites, in example face book, linked in, Ning.com, twitter, I have all emails from those sites going to my GMail account. Goggle mail or GMail is great at filtering.
I do this to filter out the spam and have access to those emails when ever where ever.
Gmail is good at taking out the spam messages. I could automatically forward the non spam messages on to my corporate account also if I wanted too I just don’t.

This can all be done in gmail settings. It has saved me lots of time.

Get a PO#, or why acting in good faith isn’t enough.

Today business moves at blinding speed, clients often find my company via Google and engage me through email. Sometimes they kick the tires, want a quote or otherwise engage me. Sometimes they engage my services ask me to assist them and the relationship proceeds towards a contract and deliverable.

Sometimes however, people take advantage, have you do unsolicited consulting, some even have you do their jobs for them because they are too busy thus making you their virtual assistant. When this happens Get a PO#. Don’t be afraid to stop the process and make sure you are getting paid. Never assume it.

I recently had two companies engage me. The first unfortunately did the later. I assumed because they had me representing them and my company to a third party that an assumed contract was formed. When another potential bit of business contacted me about work on the same day I referred them to another video producer I did so because I was already engaged in this previous project.

Courtesy extended to this client was never returned and I was left with no shoot on that day. The initial contact became “very busy” and relegated the project to someone else who then hired someone else. I didn’t think badly of this potential client, I just felt powerless to the situation. An opportunity started then stopped and I was not driving.

When you are engaged for services always ask for a PO#, never assume that you are operating in good faith, stuff happens that is beyond your control sometimes and having a #PO certainly helps secure the process. Don’t be afraid to get paid.

aftermath:

I must report that I did something different about the above situation. I stayed engaged. I was professional but I sent emails to the original client and re-expressed my interest in working with him. I also explained my take on what happened.

We talked yesterday at length and I was re-hired to do this project. We both realized that we had never spoken on the phone and perhaps that is why it was so easy to dismiss the situation previously. Old fashion communication, talking and listening rued the day. I guess what I learned from all this is that once the email communication is achieved, make the phone call no matter how busy the other person is. Engage them, listen and good things may happen.

Parents acting badly…

Now I don’t claim to be a perfect parent, but I try to be the best one I can be. When I see other parents being not so good role models I kind of cringe. Our kids are our future and who we will leave the world to. Are they not entitled to at least good or decent role models while growing up?

Friday I took my kids to a packed Southwick Zoo, and a family cut in front of us and a line of like 500 others that went down the road. My immediate reaction was to tweet pic them and out them but I realized that wasn’t any better. I smiled at their kids and let it go.

Today a guy with his kids in tow tried to pass me by heading across a double yellow line just because he did not agree with me letting a person out of the CVS parking lot while at a stop light. When I pointed to my head like he should think he sped his car into on coming traffic and pulled up alongside to flip me the bird.

I reminded him he had his kids in the car and that he was in oncoming traffic. He sped off narrowly missing a head on collision. The incident was enough to upset my 6 year old daughter however. It upset her dad even more.

We all need to share the earth folks. Please if you have your kids with you, try and be a good citizen if not for yourself then for them.

My Interview on PTVlive

I thought it went well and I was glad to contribute. Here
is the link. My thanks again to Matt Mamet and the
folks at PermissionTV for having me as a guest.

http://www.permissiontv.com/about/blog/57/2009-04-23-ptv_live_episode_16_creating_online_video_content

Permission TV Live appearance

I have been asked by Matthew Mamet to be a guest of PermissionTV live tomorrow 4/23/09 at 3:00pm EST. Not sure what the questions will be about but I hope I am an interesting guest. I suspect questions will range from those about Brilliant Video Productions to new video tools to sports but I am not certain.

If you wish to tune in you can at 3:00PM http://www.permissiontv.com/go/live/

You can tweet questions to #ptvlive

If I Have multimolded you with this message I apologize.

Marathon Day BBQ 2009

I decided to Have friends over for a BBQ and throw a live feed of the Boston Marathon online live from Natick. At some point early the live feed shutoff, not sure why but it did. I rebooted it and it was fine until I shut it off myself after the last runners passed by.

The Kids had a great time and we ran into more kids that we knew and fed them all hot dogs and BBQ chicken.

There were 2 Americans that both finished third in the Boston Marathon this year. Ryan Hall finished third in the Men’s and Kara Goucher finished third in the Woman’s race. Definitely the best USA finishers in quite awhile.

Ernst Van Dyke (RSA) won the Men’s wheel chair race and Wakako Tsuchida (JPN) won the woman’s wheel chair race. Deriba Merga of (ETH) won the Men’s Marathon and Salina Kosgei of (KEN) won the women’s Marathon.

Viral Video of the Week

I will update these weekly with changes. This one brought tears to my eyes.

http://www.dailymotion.com/swf/x8ymn0_susan-boyle-on-britain-got-talent

Playoff time in Boston.

We are at an exciting spring time here in Boston. The Weather is finally getting better and both the Celtics and the Bruins are starting their playoff push. The Bruins are vast improved over 2008 but still need to vanquish their arch rivals the Montreal Canadians to advance and although they had the best overall record in the East they still need to play it loose and fast to be successful. If they get into a brawl they will loose focus.

The Celtics have a much tougher road to Hoe. KG, the Big Ticket Garnett will reportedly miss the playoffs entirely so my seeing gang green even making the conference finals this year is a long shot at best. I can see them advancing from the first round but being pushed hard by Chicago. Celtics in 7 maybe.

The Marathon will run yet again this Monday and I will go on a limb and say a Kenyan will win. They have dominated the Boston Marathon in both the women’s and Men’s races the last few years so I think I am safe with this prediction.

SBANE on Mogulus

I was able to stream the SBANE New England Award presentations to the web as I filmed them for SBANE on Thursday of this past week. I stream it live using my laptop. We had a few connection issues with the Internet feed (power, wireless router) but once connected the feed stayed strong and connected on the Mogulus side.

Vistitors viewing said it was a little dark but then the room light was all we had after the sun set in the West. The flash video I saw that was recorded looked pretty good and the sound off my camera that was feeding mogulus surprised a few people in it’s clarity.

The trick now of course is getting others to want this service at their events and having the resources to pay for it. We call that Monetizing the message I believe.

All and all the TEst went very well and everyone was pleased with the Mogulus platform and it’s capabilities.