I find that social media is getting in the way of getting to know people better. I have had many people on Facebook that I have had almost no connection with. Ideally I thought I would get to know that person better personally but the opposite happened. I lost contact with a few people I really wanted to get to know better. Life is funny that way. I trimmed my list again recently. I deleted people I had no contact with at all and people who never responded to emails I sent them. Rude might be fashionable in some circles but not mine.